What sets people apart?
Why are some people successful while others aren’t?
Being born of a specific gender with a certain color of skin in the right place at the right time doesn’t qualify (or disqualify) anyone for anything. Being intelligent doesn’t matter if you don’t apply yourself. Yet we look to these things as being advantageous even though they promise nothing.
We each have our own unique set of strengths and weaknesses … our flaws and imperfections. We all struggle to make our way in the world and some of us will endure hardships most people could never imagine.
Different people fight different battles.
It’s easy to blame bad luck for the bad things in your life. Or to believe other people only realized success thanks to good luck.
” The only good luck many great men ever had was being born with the ability and determination to overcome bad luck.” ~ Channing Pollock
Certain circumstances are more difficult to overcome than others but these things don’t preclude you from having the life you want … just as having all the “advantages” can’t ensure your success. You might have to work twice as hard just to accomplish exactly the same thing as someone else.
It isn’t fair … but that’s just the way it is sometimes.
Having the life you want isn’t about luck.
A stroke of good luck won’t make you successful without prior preparation, nor can a stroke of bad luck wipe away everything you’ve created for yourself if you’ve worked hard and prepared for the worst. You must create a margin of error in your life.
“Luck” favors the persistent.
The longer you persist, the greater your chances of success. Recognize opportunity when it comes along … it’s often disguised as hard work. If seizing that opportunity will disrupt your life, that’s a good indication you’re on the right path.
Isn’t it “life as you know it” that you’re trying to change?
It isn’t luck … it’s your choices and your actions that determine your outcome. It takes dedication, devotion, commitment and sacrifice. You change your life by stepping out of your comfort zone and doing things differently. If you want to live the life of your dreams, you have to work for it.
Success doesn’t just happen. You have to make it happen.