Into the Great Wide Open

I have a confession to make.

I waste a lot of time staring at a computer screen. Too much fucking time, to be exact. But I don’t know how to disconnect. I feel like social media has become so ingrained in our culture that deleting my accounts means removing myself from society. If I’m not on Facebook, I’ll just…disappear.

I’ll lose contact with my friends and family because they no longer exist in real life. There isn’t any reason to visit anyone anymore…just send them a message instead. Social media has done more to destroy relationships than it has to bring people together. We’re constantly connected, but we’re out of touch. A photo is a poor substitute for direct human contact.

Maybe it’s my fault…it might be. But I want something different. I need to disconnect.

Life isn’t meant to be wasted hunched over a computer. If disconnecting means losing touch with people, I guess those people don’t really matter. The people who are important are the ones who are present in your life, not the ones who you haven’t spent time with in years, and who won’t be there for you when you need them to be. Those people are just icons on a computer screen.

And so, I’m signing off from all my personal accounts.

Into the great wide open…

Who’s in Control of Your Life?

There are two types of people in the world: those who believe they’re in control of their lives, and those who think what happens to them is the result of fate or destiny. I’m a firm believer that people have complete control over their lives, and that we’re all responsible for the lives we’re living today. The decisions you made yesterday got you to where you are now, and the decisions you make today will determine where your life is tomorrow.

If you’re not happy with your life, change it.

Does your relationship suck? Fix it. If you can’t fix it, leave. Hate your job? Quit. Do work you value. Broke? Quit spending money and pay off your debts. Want to travel the world? Buy a plane ticket. Sick of being fat? Exercise.

If you feel like you’ve lost control of your life, what can you do to get it back?

Start taking responsibility for your life. You can’t change the past, but you can change tomorrow with the choices you make today. Keep doing what you’ve been doing, and nothing will change. You have to leave your comfort zone if you ever expect things to change.

Ignore the expectations of others. It’s your life, live it how you want. Ignore the pressures to conform, and stop letting other people dictate the direction of your life. When you breathe your last breath, will you be proud of what you’ve done, or will you wish you’d have followed your heart?

Be (a little) selfish. Stop trying to make other people happy. If you’re always concerned with how other people feel, you’re ignoring your own desires. It’s important to make your feelings known. But it’s just as important to know when to compromise…you don’t want to be a douche. Be pragmatic.

You’re in control. Now do something about it!

A Quick Guide to Basic Backpacking Gear

My first “backpacking” experience was a few years ago in Yosemite National Park.

My friend and I packed our camping gear into my car, and drove to one of the most remote places in the park. Neither of us had any of the right gear. I had a daypack that would barely hold my hydration bladder, and he had an old book bag from college. The only tent we had was too big and too heavy to drag into the wilderness so we opted to sleep on a sheet of plastic instead. We strapped our sleeping bags to our packs using bungee cords, and we disappeared into the Yosemite backcountry.

We had no idea what the hell we were doing.

That experience taught me an important lesson: Mother Nature is indifferent to your joy, comfort, distress, and pain. You’re on your own. But having the proper gear will ensure you have a safe, enjoyable trip. You’ll be able to reflect on your journey with a sense of pride and accomplishment, rather than remembering the time you almost died.

In July I’ll be climbing Mount Whitney, the highest peak in the continental United States.

And this time I’m better prepared. I’ve been acquiring the gear I need to spend a few days on the mountain, and to make a successful bid for the summit. I’m hoping to keep the base weight of my gear under twenty pounds, but I’ll probably end up being a touch over. I’m only taking what I need to be safe and comfortable. I’m not interested in hauling sixty pounds of shit up the side of a mountain. That’s not my idea of a good time.

Here’s a quick overview of the basic backpacking gear you’ll need to get started:

The Ten Essentials – These are the things you should never leave home without: map, compass, sun protection (sunglasses and sunscreen), extra food, extra water, extra clothes, headlight, first aid kit, fire starter, and a knife.

Backpack – Choosing a backpack requires a lot of research. You have to decide how much storage you’ll need, what features you’re looking for, and the price you’re willing to pay. A lot of research can be done online, but don’t buy a backpack without first trying it on. Your comfort in the backcountry depends on how well your pack fits, so be sure to have a professional help you chose one that fits properly.

Shelter – What you carry for shelter will depend on your desired level of comfort. The more fancy the tent, the heavier it will be. The tent I chose is the REI Half Dome 2 Plus. I decided to go with this tent because I’m traveling with another person, and I’m a tall guy. I wouldn’t carry this tent if I were going solo. It’s too heavy. If I were heading into the backcountry by myself, I’d want a tent that doesn’t weigh more than two and a half pounds, something like the NEMO Obi Tent.

Sleeping Bag – You want a bag that’s lightweight, but will keep you warm. Use the EN temperature rating as a guide to help you select the right bag. I have the Mountain Hardwear Ultralamina +0 Sleeping Bag, which is more than I need for Mount Whitney, but I bought it anyways because I’ll be doing some more “extreme” hikes in the future.

Sleeping Pad – A sleeping pad isn’t only to make the night more enjoyable, it also insulates you from the ground. When you lay on your sleeping bag, you crush the insulation. Crushed insulation doesn’t insulate. And the ground is cold. You can pick up a closed-cell foam pad for cheap, or you can go with an inflatable pad. I chose the Exped DownMat UL 7 for its added R-Value. A major drawback to this pad is that it requires an external pumping system to inflate (one more thing to carry.) Exped designed a Pillow Pump that doubles as a pillow, and an air pump. Clever!

Water Purification System – And boiling river water over a campfire in tin ravioli cans doesn’t count! Yes, I’ve done it. No, I don’t suggest you do it. Buy a filter. Even though you’re in the middle of pristine wilderness and the water is crystal clear, you never know if a marmot (or another hiker) took a shit in the river just out of your view. Mmm, tasty! I use the Katadyn Base Camp Water Filter because it has a large volume and because gravity does all the work.

Camp Stove – You can pick up a burner that screws into a fuel canister for around $30 or you can spend almost $200 for a Jetboil Sumo Titanium Cooking System. I decided to meet in the middle with the Jetboil Flash. You’re able to cook in, and eat out of, a single container. And when you’re done, everything packs neatly inside.

Headlight – For early morning summit bids, or in case of an emergency. A headlight is a must in the backcountry. You want a light that is durable, reliable, and bright. I went with the Black Diamond Icon. At 200 lumens, it can throw a beam of light up to 100 meters. That’s bright!

First Aid Kit – Shit happens. Be ready. It’s one piece of gear you never hope you’ll need, but is absolutely essential to have. You might not be able to do a heart transplant with it, but it can really help you out with less severe maladies like cuts, scrapes, and blisters. I picked up the REI Backpacker Plus Multiday First-Aid Kit.

Since I’m trying to keep my pack weight to a minimum, I’m not dragging along much more than what’s listed above. I’ll have the odd toiletry items, and things like insect repellent, a toothbrush and toothpaste, and my camera. But not much more than that. Backpacking is supposed to be fun and enjoyable…not punishing. And I can’t think of anything worse than hauling a heavy backpack up a mountain…

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